I'm so sorry, nonny. I went through a mountain of mental/psych abuse with my mother and while we've seemed to resolved it, each of us, your dad sounds more deeply disturbed. That's not a normal way to see people or think, AT ALL, and I'm sorry he inflicted it on you.

Some movies are horrid for me to watch for my own psych reasons too ( district 9 set a lot of bells ringing) and so I don't, couldn't blame you a second for feeling as you do.

Take care.