Friends Only

[elialshadowpine]

After some negative incidents I've had with people trolling my journal, I've decided to make everything friends only. If you'd like to be added, please comment, and let me know how you found me. :)

Also, please note that I have a filter system for posts. When you comment, please let me know which you'd like to be on. I reserve the right to not put you on one if I'm uncomfortable but I will certainly take everything into account. I put everyone on the Life/General, Writing, and Health filters by default.

• Life/General
• Writing
• Health
• Sex and BDSM
• Feminism
• World of Warcraft / Gaming
• Fat Acceptance and Mental Illness
• Family Issues
• Childfree
• Paganism

Comments

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[instantramen]

Defaults, feminism, gaming, fat acceptance, and paganism, if you please!

[inoru_no_hoshi]

I am actually A-okay with having all of that on my reading list, if that's all right with you. :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

It is actually not about my comfort levels so much as it's about having dealt with some snark in the past from people who didn't want to read certain things. Unfortunately, a lot of my anxiety disorder is centered around approval, so it got where I was scared to post anything that wasn't bland and "safe". The people who did it aren't friends anymore, but it just was easier to create filters and ask people what they want to read!

[k_a_webb]

Life/General
Writing
Health
Fat Acceptance and Mental Illness
Family Issues
Paganism

These filters, please, as long as your comfortable with me being on them.

[minkhollow]

I'll take all of 'em but Sex and BDSM, please!

[shameless2shoes]

This is an AWESOME system. I was just thinking I missed google+'s circles but here you are doing the same thing on Dreamwidth! (Note to self: duh.)

I would like to be on these filters please! :)

Life/General
Writing
Health
Sex and BDSM
Feminism
Fat Acceptance and Mental Illness
Childfree

[nuitsongeur]

Honestly, I do not mind if you put me on EVERY single filter, because they all appeal to me. :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done! I can't take credit for the system; I totally ganked it from moonvoice (who is made of awesome, btw). Utterly brilliant, and I'd been having a lot of issues with anxiety after a couple people complained about not liking some of the things I posted about.

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[aidenfire]

Hi! I'd like to be on the Life/General
Writing
Health
Sex and BDSM
Feminism
Fat Acceptance and Mental Illness
Family Issues

filters, if you're comfortable with that! :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[violet_eyes]

Put me on as many of those filters as you're comfortable with - I'd love to read them all! Nice to meet a fellow D/s enthusiast, by the way...

[elialshadowpine]

Done! I'm not as active as I would like to be. Health issues preclude a lot of it with my husband, and my recently ex-boyfriend, while we still have a FWB thing going on, is not comfortable continuing the D/s relationship. I continue hoping that I will find a play partner, but that kinda involves me getting over my social anxiety and getting out there. XD

Are you on Fetlife? I'm Nonny also over there. :)

[violet_eyes]

I'm not on Fetlife, but only 'cause I'm a procrastinator! The issue that stops me from being as active as I would like is my work schedule during term time, but I'm lucky enough to know someone who's very active in the London fetish scene who has promised to keep me posted about anything going on during the holidays...

[dreamwriteremmy]

here via argylepiratewd's friending meme.

beyond the defaults, I'm fine with being added to anything but the childfree filter. So whatever you're comfortable with us reading. ^^

- Emmy & co

[arinelle]

Filters I'm cool with:
Life/General, Writing, Health, Sex & BDSM, Gaming (used to play WoW now play SWTOR), FA& MI, Family Issues, and Paganism.

I'm not childfree and feminism isn't a big thing with me, but I'm okay being included, I'm respectful about differing opinions.

And I will not take it personally if you don't feel comfortable putting me on anything right away as I am a stranger on the internet. :D

Hi!

[luckyckljw]

I'll gladly read anything but WoW. :)