Friends Only

[elialshadowpine]

After some negative incidents I've had with people trolling my journal, I've decided to make everything friends only. If you'd like to be added, please comment, and let me know how you found me. :)

Also, please note that I have a filter system for posts. When you comment, please let me know which you'd like to be on. I reserve the right to not put you on one if I'm uncomfortable but I will certainly take everything into account. I put everyone on the Life/General, Writing, and Health filters by default.

• Life/General
• Writing
• Health
• Sex and BDSM
• Feminism
• World of Warcraft / Gaming
• Fat Acceptance and Mental Illness
• Family Issues
• Childfree
• Paganism

Comments

[arinelle]

Filters I'm cool with:
Life/General, Writing, Health, Sex & BDSM, Gaming (used to play WoW now play SWTOR), FA& MI, Family Issues, and Paganism.

I'm not childfree and feminism isn't a big thing with me, but I'm okay being included, I'm respectful about differing opinions.

And I will not take it personally if you don't feel comfortable putting me on anything right away as I am a stranger on the internet. :D

Hi!

[elialshadowpine]

I'm comfortable with anybody, for the most part. I ran into some issues with people being snarky about content I posted that they didn't want to read, and it caused a lot of anxiety issues, so when I stumbled on a friend using this system, I totally nicked it. :)

Most social justice stuff falls under the feminism umbrella. I probably should rename it that, but, meh. I deal a lot with intersectionality and definitely come from things from a third wave perspective. Unless somebody is a complete asshole (like the guy I banned because he was defending Roman fucking Polanski and claiming Devil's Advocate -- sorry, but there are some things you do not fucking devil's advocate, and that is one of them), I have a lot of tolerance for differing opinions, too. I will, of course, try to explain my side calmly and rationally, but nobody has to agree with me!

[arinelle]

I'm definitely an agree to disagree type. I try to keep a mostly neutral perspective in life.