Friends Only

[elialshadowpine]

After some negative incidents I've had with people trolling my journal, I've decided to make everything friends only. If you'd like to be added, please comment, and let me know how you found me. :)

Also, please note that I have a filter system for posts. When you comment, please let me know which you'd like to be on. I reserve the right to not put you on one if I'm uncomfortable but I will certainly take everything into account. I put everyone on the Life/General, Writing, and Health filters by default.

• Life/General
• Writing
• Health
• Sex and BDSM
• Feminism
• World of Warcraft / Gaming
• Fat Acceptance and Mental Illness
• Family Issues
• Childfree
• Paganism

Comments

[luckyckljw]

I'll gladly read anything but WoW. :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done :)

[inkstone]

Hi! Here via the friending meme. :) Other than the defaults, I'd like to be on the sex & bdsm, feminism, fat acceptance & mental illness and family issues filters if you're all right with that. Whatever you're comfortable with is fine with me.

[elialshadowpine]

I'm comfortable with pretty much anything; the filters exist for my own minimization of anxiety, after I had some people get snarky about things I posted that they didn't want to read. Unfortunately, a lot of my anxiety is about approval, so it was at the back of my head anytime I posted anything. Filters have worked wonders.

[myrachan]

Hi, Love to be your friend :) I play on the last sunrise. I bought you guys a snuzzle and the interchangeable watch for Christmas!

[elialshadowpine]

Hey! Thank you for the snuzzie and the watch! We actually liked the snuzzie so much we ordered a second one for me so we wouldn't have to fight over it. :D

I added you to the basic filters, if you want on anything more let me know.

[arianne_maya]

Hi there! Only the Gaming filter seem to be completely out of my interests, as for the others they really interest me and if I don't agree with something I'm always respectful about it, or I just don't say anything. So. Think you can add me to pretty much everything?

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[amethystfirefly]

Wow, I never did this. -laughs-

I'd like to be added to all the filters except the sex and BDSM one, please. :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done :)

[sidheblessed]

I'm happy to be on any filter you feel comfortable having me but I'm especially interested in Sex and BDSM, Feminism, Fat Acceptance and Mental Illness, Family Issues and Paganism.

[elialshadowpine]

Done :)

[guruwench]

Anything but the gaming filter, thank you. :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done!

[ravnsdaughter]

Heya! I've added you but you haven't added me back over here yet, so I'm commenting here both to poke you and to say please add me to all of your filters. :)

[elialshadowpine]

Oh! Very sorry, I totally missed that somehow. If it was in November, well, um, November was one fucked up month, and I wasn't aware of much else going on besides my personal drama. Sorry!

[bat_cheva]

Everything but WoW/Gaming if that's acceptable to you. :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[crescent_gaia]

Just wanted to let you know that you can add me for all of them. :D I just forgot to come here and tell you.

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[jet]

Hi, I'm jetdragon on livejournal! I'd like to be on your feminism, WoW/gaming, and childfree filters if that's okay.

[elialshadowpine]

Done! (I'm assuming that's in addition to the standard filters; if not, let me know.)

[naamah_darling]

I'm fine with being on anything you are comfortable having me on!

[elialshadowpine]

Dearheart, I am comfortable having you on everything. You are like, the one person aside from my husband and my other partners, whom I put on every filtered post because I trust you that implicitly and value your opinion so much. <3

[kehleyr]

I'd like to be in all filters except World of Warcraft / Gaming :-)!

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[glamnation]

You can add me to all of those freely. I admit that I don't play WoW myself, but I *am* a roleplayer in another variety. :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done! I do talk about other types of gaming on that filter, too. :)

[northern_light]

I think I'm good with all of them. The sex ones are lj-cut, right? (I'm still not sure what my client can and can't see when I'm logged into their system. It takes over as my ISP, but I'm not sure if they can physically see what I'm doing with my other windows.)

[pewter]

I will happily be on all filters :)

[elialshadowpine]

Done! :)

[greymoon]

Guess who? :P

As for your filters, whatever you want to add me to.

[kaberett]

Can I go on all filters except WoW/Gaming, please? :-)

[elialshadowpine]

Done :)

[tronlives]

Hey, it's magenter from LJ - - I've had to all but abandon my LJ because of some problematic folks over there, but I'm writing on Dreamwidth now =)

[tronlives]

Oh, and I am cool with all the filters ^_^

[bzero]

Hello! I think I found your profile just by looking for other people with similar interests when I joined DW, tho a few commenters' names look familiar, so we may have some friends in common here or on LJ.

I'm happy with all filters, and will probably add you to similar filters unless you see something that burns the eyes, and then I can remove you. ;)

Have a good birthday weekend! I'm also MetalHawk at Fetlife, so I might send you a friend request there as well. =)

[aelius_rufus]

Hi Nonny, just got your email. Thanks for allowing me to join your DW home. I'd like to be on all filters.

Gabriele

[scatteredshells]

Hello, and bright blessings to you.

I found your journal thanks to a comment you made in moonvoice's journal, but recognised your photo from FL, specifically the 'BDSM &Feminism (now with less BS)' forum. I often lurk around there, though my name there is jarek_star, and your posts stood out to me due to their being thoughtful reads.

I am a kinky, pagan, queer, trans/genderqueer, bipolar sort of person (who is childfree though I love kids, just DO NOT WANT my own, ew,) and it would seem we have a few other points of life and interests in common. I would enjoy getting the chance to know you better, and seeing as I post on DW a whole lot more than on FL, I figured this place would be better for approaching.

My journal is also mostly locked from the general viewer, but I do not have a system of filters in place. If mutual journal adding sounds good, I am fine being put on any or all of your filters, of course, barring wherever you would be uncomfortable having me.

[elialshadowpine]

Of course! :)

[sweet_minbari_jesus]

Hey nonny! Its jynxie (Sweet_minuet) from LJ :) would you like to be my friend here? :)

[magic_potion]

Hi, I found your journal while browsing people with similar interests. You seem like an interesting person (to read) so I'm adding you and you can decide whether you want to add me. All filters are ok.