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2016-11-30 06:33 am

[Life/General] Gender, Redux

So, I happened upon my posts regarding my father raising me as male while looking for something entirely different. I re-read what I said at the time, years ago, and there is something that stuck out at me. I don't know if I didn't realize how bad it was at the time, or if I was simply in denial, or if I misunderstood the terminology, but here goes.

I said I did not experience body dysphoria. In fact, I do. I have severe PCOS; my diagnosing endocrinologist said I was one of the most severe cases she had seen in her 20+ years of practice and asked for my consent to have her student come in so she could describe what to look for. I agreed, because I know from having multiple medical folk in my family that you gain more information when the doctors are speaking to other doctors or medical students. It was enlightening, and I learned things about PCOS that I likely would not have come across otherwise.

Lots of gender related thoughts and shit, also this is long as fuck, so be warned )

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elialshadowpine: ([me] May 2014)
2009-08-14 02:29 am
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For once -- good news! Child rapist convicted!

I was going to post something earlier today but needed to wait to get permission. Now that I have it, here goes. I'm sure [livejournal.com profile] omimouse will have a more detailed post up later once they're home, but these are the highlights from what she and Louis have told me.

First, I need to explain the people involved as they're a polyamorous group, which makes it more difficult than "husband" and "ex-wife." [livejournal.com profile] warinbear and [livejournal.com profile] catchild used to be married but were divorced a few years ago. [livejournal.com profile] omimouse is involved with both [livejournal.com profile] warinbear and [livejournal.com profile] louisadkins. [livejournal.com profile] ebonunicorn is [livejournal.com profile] catchild's new husband and partner of several years. There are three children involved: Bearcub, Puppy, and Pooka, listed by age. The eldest two are [livejournal.com profile] warinbear's; the youngest is [livejournal.com profile] ebonunicorn. They lived together at one point but Warin, Louis, and Naomi separated a few years back from Catchild and Ebon (whose name is on record as Paul Alexander Montgomery the Third, but I will refer to as Ebon for simplicity, and the fact that I hate he shares a name with my boyfriend).

A bit over a year ago, Bearcub confided in Louis and Naomi (who might as well also be her parents) that Ebon raped her from the time that she was 9 to when she turned 11. At that point, she demanded he stop, and he did -- but not without continuing to harass and express interest. This was reported to the police immediately, and DCS got involved.

Might be triggering... but read... please read... )

ETA: News article on the trial here. Also, Omimouse's entry.
elialshadowpine: ([whedon] no power in the 'verse)
2009-08-14 02:29 am
Entry tags:

For once -- good news! Child rapist convicted!

I was going to post something earlier today but needed to wait to get permission. Now that I have it, here goes. I'm sure [livejournal.com profile] omimouse will have a more detailed post up later once they're home, but these are the highlights from what she and Louis have told me.

First, I need to explain the people involved as they're a polyamorous group, which makes it more difficult than "husband" and "ex-wife." [livejournal.com profile] warinbear and [livejournal.com profile] catchild used to be married but were divorced a few years ago. [livejournal.com profile] omimouse is involved with both [livejournal.com profile] warinbear and [livejournal.com profile] louisadkins. [livejournal.com profile] ebonunicorn is [livejournal.com profile] catchild's new husband and partner of several years. There are three children involved: Bearcub, Puppy, and Pooka, listed by age. The eldest two are [livejournal.com profile] warinbear's; the youngest is [livejournal.com profile] ebonunicorn. They lived together at one point but Warin, Louis, and Naomi separated a few years back from Catchild and Ebon (whose name is on record as Paul Alexander Montgomery the Third, but I will refer to as Ebon for simplicity, and the fact that I hate he shares a name with my boyfriend).

A bit over a year ago, Bearcub confided in Louis and Naomi (who might as well also be her parents) that Ebon raped her from the time that she was 9 to when she turned 11. At that point, she demanded he stop, and he did -- but not without continuing to harass and express interest. This was reported to the police immediately, and DCS got involved.

Might be triggering... but read... please read... )

ETA: News article on the trial here. Also, Omimouse's entry.